Spice Up Your Marriage on $0 Budget

They say spontaneity is the “spice” of life, so how about adding a bit of unexpectedness to keep your marriage fresh, new, and invigorating?

Over time, it’s very common for marital sex becomes routine and predictable, but it doesn’t have to be. Seducing your husband can be as easy as incorporating normal home activities with fun and interesting twists.

To start, try a few of the following activities with your hubby. I hope they’ll leave lots of fond memories all over the house.

Fun Tips:

• Rub his cock with your feet while you’re dining at home – even if you’re wearing sweats or pajamas – any time of day, breakfast, lunch or dinner.

• If you’re getting ready to go out, start getting ready 15 minutes earlier than normal and invite your husband to shower with you.

• Make it a point to walk around the house in a see through tank top and panties.

• When you’re watering the lawn or patio plants, accidentally get your t-shirt wet.

• Go braless.

• Drop something and bend over in front of him.

• Invite him to help you cook and wear nothing but an apron.

• During sports, ask him if he’d like to have sex with you during the commercials and every time the game comes back on, make him stop and wait for the next commercial.

• When he’s showering, get naked and sneak in behind him.

• The next time he’s cleaning the kitchen, put on some knee pads and reward him

Let me know how these work! Tweet me at @thejessicadrake or leave a comment here on this blog


*This article originally appeared on Fleshbot.com as part of a weeklong guest editor gig I had

The CatalystCon Opening Keynote Plenary Address

I’m about to fly to Washington DC in a couple of days for Catalyst Con East, where in addition to speaking in several sessions previously detailed, I’ll be on the panel for the CatalystCon Opening Keynote Plenary Address the night of Friday, March 15.

The panel will be moderated by the lovely Tristan Taormino (whose radio show I will be a guest on during the weekend).  My fellow panelists include Ducky Doolittle, Dr. Hernando Chaves, and Mireille Miller-Young.  I greatly admire each of the people I’m speaking with for their contributions towards modern sex education.

The Keynote is going to kickoff the convention and set the tone for the entire weekend.  We’ll cover an array of topics including battles over sex education, reproductive rights, gay marriage, obscenity, and pornography, and how each one plays a role in politics and society.  Of course each topic will be covered in more details during CatalystCon’s over 40 sessions.

For more information about CatalystCon East, visit the website at www.CatalystCon.com.  I’m sure I’ll be tweeting about all the informative sessions and amazing speakers throughout the three days, so check out @thejessicadrake.  I’m also looking forward to posting a recap of the convention when I’m back home in LA.