5 Tips to Giving Great Oral Sex

*Originally appeared as a guest blog post on “Dirty And Thirty.”

If there’s one thing I know for sure, it’s the majority of men love a great blowjob. Therefore, in honor of “Steak and Blowjob Day,” I have taken the liberty of sharing five of my favorite tips for giving incredible head.

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  • Start Slow and Let Him Know It’s “Blow Job Time”: When giving fellatio, always start slow and let your partner know its all for his benefit. In your own words, tell your man that it’s “blow job time” and you expect nothing in return. You can use this information to tease him with a suggestive text or phone call earlier in the day. Then when the time comes, use only your tongue. Don’t incorporate hands yet. Tease him into full arousal, and if he’s already aroused, make him want it even more.
  • Perception Is Everything: When giving a man oral sex, his point of view is very important. Keep your location in mind and always think of ways to stimulate him visually, as well as physically. For example, consider positioning yourself in front of a mirror, or somewhere with a partial view of a mirror. As noted in “Guide to Wicked Sex: Fellatio,” a popular volume in my sex instructional series, be sure to wear something that shows off your breasts and tie your hair into a ponytail to give him a clear view. This way, your man can fully appreciate his blowjob and watch it from different angles.
  • Be Enthusiastic: Men love it when you enjoy giving them pleasure. Moan and make it obvious that you like what you’re doing. When he starts to cum, be enthusiastic! Don’t stop, and if you don’t want to swallow, use your saliva and his cum to stroke him. Rub his cock with all your saliva and use both hands until he stops moving. He’ll never notice, and he’ll thank you later for not stopping!
  • Use Flavored Lubes: Flavored lubes can make giving oral sex extremely tasty. My favorite personal lubricants are from the Wicked Sensual Care collection, which contains 100 percent plant-based derivatives and glycerin – thus making them vegan and PETA-compliant. The line also includes several products with the glycerin-free advantage—hypoallergenic Sensitive, Jellé, and an entire silicone-based Ultra line. Spread a thin layer of lube on your man’s cock and then dive in. He’ll taste wonderful!
  • Eye Contact: When giving fellatio, I cannot overstress the need for eye contact. When you’re looking into his eyes and moaning, it signals that you are confidence and love what you’re doing. This will trigger an instinctive, animalistic reaction from your man, and he will feel more relaxed and more turned on– and experience an incredible orgasm!

Demonstrating you care as much about your man’s sexual satisfaction as you do your own is a great way to show your appreciation and boost his confidence. Use all of my tips, and don’t be scared to try new things. Later, when it’s your turn, I’ll bet your guy will be just as eager to return the favor!

 

xo,

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jessica drake Leads Modern Sex Ed Seminars at Cirilla’s Stores

Award-Winning ‘Guide to Wicked Sex’ Creator, Sex Educator to Educate on Oral Sex in Sandusky & Boardman, Ohio, January 30-31!

JANUARY 28, 2014 – Sandusky, OH — Sexual wellness authority and sex educator jessica drake will appear at Cirilla’s stores in Ohio to present her popular “Sex Talk with jessica drake” seminar series. On Thursday, January 30 drake will speak at the Cirilla’s store in Sandusky, and on Friday, January 31, she will present at the Boardman location.

jessica drake’s workshops will focus on oral sex, walking participants through the ins and outs of fellatio on a man and going down on a woman, as well as offering tips and techniques. Audience members are encouraged to engage in a positive discussion regarding general attitudes men and women have towards sex, as well as their personal experiences. Each presentation concludes with an open Q-and-A session. Afterwards, drake will sign autographs and take pictures with guests.

For complete details about “Sex Talk with jessica drake” and to RSVP, visit Cirilla’s Facebook page and website.

“From my appearances and workshops, it is evident there is a real interest in straightforward information about sex,” says drake. “Speaking with people on a personal level about how to have better, more enriching sex is something I always look forward to. Cirilla’s has always been very welcoming, and their patrons are enthusiastic about learning more about great sex. I’ve been to their Indiana and Michigan stores so far, and I am really looking forward to presenting my workshops at Cirilla’s stores in Ohio this month.”

After a store appearance and signing nearly five years ago, jessica drake was approached by a woman who admitted she had never experienced an orgasm and wondered why. drake was touched by the confession and request for help, and noticing a dramatic increase in the number of women and couples attending her appearances, she saw a demand for modern sex education.

drake is the writer, producer, and director of her line of instructional DVDs, jessica drake’s Guide to Wicked Sex, through which she teaches people to explore their sexuality in a fun, safe, and responsible way. She teaches how to set boundaries and still have wonderful sex. She also emphasizes consent (and alcohol’s effects), how to say “No,” and how to communicate effectively about sex. jessica is a big advocate on condoms and safe sex, but she does not believe in government regulation of a woman’s body.

jessica drake’s Guide to Wicked Sex is a critically acclaimed sex-ed video series from Wicked Pictures. jessica drake’s Guide to Wicked Sex: Anal received the 2012 XBIZ award for Specialty Release of the Year, and jessica drake’s Guide To Wicked Sex: Fellatio took home the AVN Award for Best Educational Release in 2012. jessica drake’s Guide to Wicked Sex: Anal Play for Men was named Best Educational Release at this year’s 2014 AVN Awards.

“Having the ‘Guide to Wicked Sex’ series has allowed me to extend modern sex education to an international audience,” continues drake. “I still love when I can make personal appearances at stores across and speak with people face to face. Learning what people are actually curious about allows us to all grow sexually.”

A fervent educator on sexual health and wellness, drake is a highly sought-after sexual wellness speaker who lectures at universities, teaches seminars, and runs workshops globally. Through her series of workshops and seminars and her line of instructional DVDs, jessica teaches people to explore their sexuality in a fun, safe, and responsible way. She teaches how to set boundaries, emphasize consent, and still have wonderful sex while communicating effectively with partners.

drake will speak at 7pm on Thursday, January 30 at Cirilla’s, 3104 Milan Rd, Sandusky, OH 44870. On Friday, January 31 at 7pm, drake will present her seminar at Cirilla’s, 64 Boardman Poland Rd, Boardman, OH 44512.

For more information about jessica drake’s Guide to Wicked Sex titles, appearances and sex education seminar series, visit http://www.guidetowickedsex.com.

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About jessica drake’s Guide to Wicked Sex:
Three-time AVN Best Actress winner and sexual wellness authority jessica drake brings erotic topics to life through intimate demonstrations performed by some of today’s hottest adult stars in her “Guide to Wicked Sex” series. The stimulating sequences are sensual, provocative and enlivened by an informative optional audio commentary. In each volume of “jessica drake’s Guide to Wicked Sex,” writer, producer, director, and host jessica drake addresses a different aspect of human sexuality, ranging from Fellatio and Anal to Basic Positions and Female Masturbation. jessica explores each topic with the same distinct blend of knowledge, experience, and good humor, which led Dee Dennis, the founder of sexuality conference CatalystCon, to praise her as “an amazing sex educator and speaker, who represents a new direction and is breaking new ground” in the sexual self-help genre. The series’ volume on Fellatio earned AVN’s 2012 Best Educational Release trophy, “Anal” was named XBIZ’s 2012 Specialty Release of the Year, “Anal Sex for Men” received AVN’s 2014 Best Educational Release award. For more information, visit www.GuideToWickedSex.com or www.Twitter.com/Guide2WickedSex.

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‘jessica drake’s Guide to Wicked Sex’ Gets High Grades with 4 AVN Awards Nominations

‘Female Masturbation,’ ‘G-Spot,’ & ‘Threesomes’ Earn Educational-Release Nods

DECEMBER 17, 2012 — CANOGA PARK, Calif — The acclaimed educational series “jessica drake’s Guide to Wicked Sex” is nominated for four 2013 AVN Awards with “Female Masturbation,” “The G-Spot and Female Ejaculation,” and “Threesomes — Every Man’s Fantasy” all nominated for Best Educational Release. The series is written and directed by Wicked Pictures contract star jessica drake, who is up for Director of the Year (Body of Work).

“I am SO excited about my ‘Guide to Wicked Sex Series’ being nominated for the AVN Awards,’ says jessica drake. “In its second year of existence, to be nominated once again amongst some truly gifted visionaries feels like such an accomplishment. This is also my first year to be recognized as a contender for Best Director Body of Work based on my instructional movies alone. I sincerely thank AVN for the honor, and I thank Wicked for always encouraging me to push myself a little further.”

“The ‘Guide to Wicked Sex’ is a very important line to the company,” Wicked Pictures owner Steve Orenstein states. “It represents our commitment to responsible sexuality. We’re proud jessica created it, and equally as proud to have her represent us with it.”

A fervent educator on sexual health and wellness, jessica drake writes, produces, and directs the video series “jessica drake’s Guide to Wicked Sex.” The series continues to receive excellent reviews from adult industry authorities, while “jessica drake’s Guide to Wicked Sex: Fellatio” received the 2012 AVN award for Best Educational Release.

In addition to creating this exclusive line of educational DVDs, jessica assists men and women in becoming more sexually aware with Sex for the Wicked Woman, a series of powerful and engaging self-help seminars illuminated by her vast expertise and passion for research.

drake’s speaking seminar experience includes sexuality conference CatalystCon. Event organizer Dee Dennis expresses her congratulations for drake: “I think jessica represents a new direction by bringing together both the porn industry and sex education with ‘Guide to Wicked Sex.’ I’m thrilled to see the industry recognize it with these nominations.”

The AVN Awards will be held January 19, 2013 at The Joint inside the Hard Rock Hotel & Casino in Las Vegas. For more information, visit AVNAwards.com.

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‘jessica drake’s Guide to Wicked Sex’ Honored with 2 XBIZ Awards Nominations

Series Earns ‘Specialty Release,’ ‘Marketing Campaign’ Accolades!

NOVEMBER 19, 2012 — LOS ANGELES, CA — The acclaimed educational series “jessica drake’s Guide to Wicked Sex” is nominated for two 2013 XBIZ Awards: Marketing Campaign of the Year and Specialty Release of the Year for “jessica drake’s Guide to Wicked Sex: Positions (Basic).” The series is written and directed by Wicked Pictures contract performer jessica drake.

“I’m so happy my ‘Guide to Wicked Sex’ series has once again been honored with nominations from Xbiz this year,” says jessica drake. “The line means so much to me, and I really appreciate the recognition. Very special thanks to Xbiz, and as always, I’m grateful to Wicked for the support and encouragement!”

Wicked Pictures owner Steve Orenstein states, “I’m glad to see the series receive continued recognition. It is a very important line to the company. We’re proud to have had jessica create it and have her represent us in and with it.”

The series’ popular volume “jessica drake’s Guide to Wicked Sex: Anal” earned the 2012 XBIZ Award for Specialty Release of the Year.

A fervent educator on sexual health and wellness, jessica drake writes, produces, and directs the video series “jessica drake’s Guide to Wicked Sex.” The series received excellent reviews from adult industry authorities including XBIZ, AVN and Fleshbot.com. The production “jessica drake’s Guide to Wicked Sex: Fellatio” received the 2012 AVN award for Best Educational Release.

In addition to creating this exclusive line of educational DVDs, jessica assists men and women in becoming more sexually aware with Sex for the Wicked Woman, a series of powerful and engaging self-help seminars illuminated by her vast expertise and passion for research.

The 2013 XBIZ Awards will take place January 11, 2013 at the Hyatt Regency Century Plaza in Los Angeles. For more information about the 2013 XBIZ Awards, visit www.XBIZAwards.com.

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jessica drake Joins Sex-Ed Panel at CatalystCon

Producer of Acclaimed ‘jessica drake’s Guide to Wicked Sex’ DVD Series Discusses ‘Sex Education: Out of the Classroom, Into the Streets!’

AUGUST 9, 2012 — LONG BEACH, CA — Emerging sexual wellness authority and adult entertainment superstar jessica drake will participate in a panel titled “Sex Education: Out of the Classroom, into the Streets!at the CatalystCon sexuality conference in September. In addition to jessica drake, panel participants include sex educators Carol Queen and Dr. Robert Morgan Lawrence, podcast host and “Sex Nerd” Sandra Daugherty and sssh.com‘s resident sex expert Ava Mir-Ausziehen.

In its inaugural year, CatalystCon was conceived from the hugely successful East Coast sexuality conference Momentum. Over 50 leading experts in sexuality and feminism attended Momentum, making it one of the most influential events on the subjects in the world. CatalystCon promises to be equally prolific, while inspiring exceptional conversations on sexuality and improving future discourse.

“I’m looking forward to this,” drake said. “So many people get their sex information — or should I say misinformation — from mainstream media and online entertainment, so a discussion of disseminating sex facts would be helpful to people who want to teach healthy, positive sexuality”

“I’m thrilled to be able to have jessica drake as a speaker at CatalystCon and especially as part of the sex educators panel Out of the Classroom,” CatalystCon organizer Dee Dennis said. “Many of us fight for sex education in our schools but I also think sex education for adults is just as important. There are many different ways to do that, as shown by the panel jessica is on. She has an established fan base that makes it possible to reach people others may not. One of the major messages of CatalystCon is knowledge is power and I feel that jessica is fulfilling that message with her series of sex-ed videos.”

The CatalystCon conference was created to inspire “exceptional conversations about sexuality” and will feature more than 40 panel discussions on various sexuality-based topics. The conference is described by organizer Dee Dennis as a “melting pot of sexuality” that will unite sex educators, sexologists, sex workers, writers, activists, and anyone with a passion for creating change. “Knowledge is power, and sharing that knowledge is the first spark in igniting change” is the principle behind CatalystCon.

Uniting a lifetime of study with a decade’s worth of experiential research, “jessica drake’s Guide to Wicked Sex” is receiving excellent reviews from adult industry authorities including XBIZ, AVN and Fleshbot.com The production “jessica drake’s Guide to Wicked Sex: Fellatio” received the 2012 AVN award for Best Educational Release and “jessica drake’s Guide Wicked Sex: Anal’ received the 2012 XBIZ award for Specialty Release of the Year.

Continuing her commitment to sexuality education, drake writes a monthly column for AdultDVDEmpire.com titled Ask jessica drake Anything.” Each month jessica answers ten questions on love, sex, and romance. The authors of the questions receive complete sets of the “jessica drake’s Guide to Wicked Sex” educational DVD series. To submit questions, visit http://www.adultdvdempire.com/pm/ask_jessica_drake.aspx.

CatalystCon will take place September 14-16 at the Hilton Long Beach & Executive Meeting Center in Long Beach, California. Registration is required. For more information, visit CatalystCon.com. The “Sex Education: Out of the Classroom, into the Streets!” panel with jessica drake participating is scheduled for 10:30 am on Saturday, September 15.

About CatalystCon:

CatalystCon is a conference created to inspire exceptional conversations about sexuality. It is about reaching out and stimulating those who attend to create those important conversations in their own communities, changing how we as a society talk and treat sexuality.  It is about stimulating the activist that is within all of us and sparking transformation in the way our friends, neighbors, children and even politicians discuss one of the most important aspects of humanity. Dee Dennis regards this conference as a “melting pot of sexuality” that will unite sex educators, sexologists, sex workers, writers, activists, and anyone with a passion for creating change. “Knowledge is power, and sharing that knowledge is the first spark in igniting change.” This is the fundamental principle behind CatalystCon. For more information, visit www.CatalystCon.com or www.Twitter.com/CatalystCon.

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jessica drake Addresses UCLA Class of Licensed Therapists

 

Leading Health Care Professionals Learn the Merits of “jessica drake’s Guide to Wicked Sex” Sex Education DVDs


MAY 10, 2012 — LOS ANGELES CA — Emerging sexual wellness authority and adult entertainment superstar jessica drake recently addressed a class of licensed therapists at UCLA.  Dr. Walter Bracklemans leads the class titled Human Sexuality, Sex Education and Sex Therapy.  Thirty-five leading health care professionals, sex therapists, MFTs and MFCCs listened to jessica speak for over an hour on her career as an adult star, her transition to sex educator and her line of bestselling DVDs, jessica drake’s Guide to Wicked Sex.

“jessica drake had 35 health care professionals eating out of the palms of her hands,” states AVN (Adult Video News) founder Paul Fishbein, who appeared with jessica.  “Her expertise and experience and presentation of the instructional line wowed these doctors.  It was the very tool many of them have been searching for over the years and they were impressed with her knowledge and presentation.”

Poised to speak at several additional universities around the country in the fall of 2012, jessica drake says, “I feel extremely privileged to have been welcomed onto UCLA’s campus for a discourse on sex education.  My favorite part of the afternoon was the roundtable discussion allowing everyone in the room to join the conversation.  It was at that point I realized how many great minds I was in the presence of.  I had the opportunity to learn just as much as I taught, and I am thankful for the way I was accepted into the extraordinary class. I am very proud to be recognized as a contributor to modern day sex education. I am very grateful to Dr. Walter Bracklemans and to Paul Fishbein for making this all possible.”

Uniting a lifetime of study with a decade’s worth of experiential research, “jessica drake’s Guide to Wicked Sex” is receiving excellent reviews.  The critics at XBIZ are raving about the franchise, praising jessica’s unique ability to “connect with people through her friendly and personal approach” and dubbing the series “the steamiest instructional line on the market!”  AVN’s Heather Namikoshi writes, “The overall tone for the female viewer is calming and accepting, and drake does a good job at creating a safe learning space within the production.  The demonstrations are good and shot well to instruct newbies in various techniques…”  Fleshbot.com is equally praiseful of jessica, crediting her with bringing a “sexy, articulate and professional” new voice to the sexual self-help genre.

AVN honored jessica drake’s Guide to Wicked Sex: Fellatio with the 2012 award for Best Educational Release.  Similarly, XBIZ bestowed the 2012 award for Specialty Release of the Year to jessica drake’s Guide Wicked Sex: Anal.

Curious adults now have the opportunity to submit questions for jessica drake through the AdultDVDEmpire.com feature column, “Ask jessica drake Anything.”  Each month jessica selects ten questions on love, sex, and romance, and posts her answers on the site.  In addition to receiving jessica’s advice, the authors of the questions will each receive complete sets of the jessica drake’s Guide to Wicked Sex educational DVD series.  To submit questions, visit http://www.adultdvdempire.com/pm/ask_jessica_drake.aspx.

In addition to creating this exclusive line of educational DVDs and her position as the official sex educator for AdultDVDEmpire.com, jessica assists men and women in becoming more sexually aware with Sex for the Wicked Woman, a series of powerful and engaging self-help seminars illuminated by her expertise and passion for research.

For more information about Dr. Bracklemans’ course, visit https://www.uclaextension.edu/r/Course.aspx?reg=U6575.

To book Jessica to speak at your class or event, please contact pr@guidetowickedsex.com.

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Trailer for “jessica drake’s Guide to Wicked Sex: Fellatio”

Open your erotic potential with the help of this exciting, informative, and groundbreaking production. jessica drake takes a candid look at how men and women really feel about fellatio. With the help of three couples, youll see demonstrations that include basic positions, tips, technique, deep throating and even exploring the prostate. You can also watch with or without narration to help you improve on your own technique! So dont be shy, its time to discover the Wicked woman inside of youand with jessicas guide to fellatio, youll blow his mind and more!

Wicked’s Breakthrough Educational DVD ‘jessica drake’s Guide to Wicked Sex: Fellatio’ Draws Retail and Critical Success

For Immediate Release | Wicked’s Breakthrough Educational DVD ‘jessica drake’s Guide to Wicked Sex: Fellatio’ Draws Retail and Critical Success

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LOS ANGELES, CA – (AUGUST 26, 2011) – Wicked Pictures is pleased to announce that jessica drake’s Guide to Wicked Sex: Fellatio, the first title in the noted sex educator and contract superstar’s line of instructional DVDs, is drawing retail and critical success. This news comes as the next two volumes in the series, Anal and Basic Positions are being readied for release in the weeks ahead.

The franchise’s debut has earned raves from the industry’s top tastemakers, with Adult Video News championing Ms. drake’s “calming and accepting tone” and applauding her for creating “a safe learning environment within the production.” AIPDaily.Com was just as effusive in its praise, calling the release “a very solid first entry in what we hope will be a quite extensive library of Wicked instructional DVDs!”

The title’s winning blend of enlightening knowledge, practical demonstrations and good humor has also earned the support of the couples’ oriented website Sex-Interrupted.Com, with the editors noting that “jessica gives just enough of an anatomy lesson to make sure that ladies know what they’re dealing with, but doesn’t take so much time that you forget that the main point of a blowjob is to give and receive pleasure and have fun doing it. She keeps it wickedly authentic with her fun and factual approach.”

According to Wicked Pictures VP of Domestic Sales Bonnie Kail, Ms. drake’s refreshing take on sexuality is striking a receptive chord with another important audience – her customers. “They love that there is finally an educational series in the marketplace that has a fresh look and style, from the packaging to the content. They love the work jessica is doing and re-orders are continuing to build as we prepare Anal and Basic Positions for release.”

jessica drake’s Guide to Wicked Sex: Anal arrives at retail locations nationwide Wednesday August 31st. “Anal Sex covers some of the things couples are most curious about,” jessica says of this provocative new title. “I guide a woman through an anal experience and interview her during the process. With the help of experts, you’ll learn how to prepare, experiment with toys, choose the correct lube, and finally how to go all the way.”

Coming September 30th, jessica drake’s Guide to Wicked Sex: Basic Positions finds this charismatic educator “exploring everything couples need to know in order to turn basic positions into something even more satisfying. You will learn how to enrich your sex life by becoming closer and more intimate with your partner.”

As the line’s writer, producer, director and host, Ms. drake sees this series as inverting the archetype consumers typically associate with sexual self-help films. “From the very beginning, I wanted to create a product that featured a variety of people in beautiful locations. I am on camera narrating each volume, but the emphasis is on the candid interviews from the participants and their demonstrations. Although they are explicit in nature, each volume shouldn’t be thought of as an adult movie, but as a key to unlocking your sexual potential!”

For more information, please visit www.wicked.com.

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