The Secret of Lingerie

Feminine, delicate, lace, faux leather, flirty, sexy – no matter what adjective you use to describe it, or what material your lingerie is made of – your choice of selection says a lot about you. Despite being a personal item most of the world isn’t privy to, just the simple knowledge of the black bra, matching panties and garter belt hugging the curves underneath your dress can give you an extra boost of confidence. When wearing new lingerie or intimates for the first time, a woman can’t resist adding an extra spring in her step or a switch in her hips. Plus, as an additional perk, your significant other will appreciate you, and the way your body looks, even more – adding spice to your love life and excitement to your bedroom games. After all, it’s often said that “a well tailored suit is to women what lingerie is to men.” Well, if your man turns you on in his suit, shouldn’t you want to return the favor?

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Regardless of your tastes or personal kinks, there are three lingerie staples that are classically perfect for turning your man on, and making you feel incredibly sexy. Read on to find out:

1) Black is the New Black: Black lingerie will never go out of style and it will forever be seductive, suggestive and erotic. When you add the mysteriousness of the color with the right materials – silk for example – it creates a wonderful aura of sexiness. Ooze it and own it.

2) Simplicity: We women love our straps, bows and fringes, but it’s its hard to get it on, it’ll be just that much harder to get it off. The former may be fine for days when you just want to admire yourself in all your finery, but for your honey’s sake – keep the removal process simple. You’ll thank me for it later.

3) Attitude: As I stated earlier in the post, a large part of wearing lingerie revolves around how it makes you feel about yourself. If you feel sexy, don’t be afraid to show it. Have fun in your boudoir wear. Your man will appreciate the extra spunkiness.

Whether red lingerie is your preference, or black, nude or even pink, the most important part is to buy pieces that make you feel both beautiful and comfortable. Experiment with a couple of different pieces, and have options that match your mood. You’ll be surprised at how a little piece of fabric can make you feel like a brand new woman. Have fun girls, and happy hunting.

xo,
jessica

jessica drake, Kelly Shibari Wrap Guide to Wicked Sex: Plus Size

Principal Photography Completed, Cast Announced for Unprecedented Sex Instructional DVD Educating People of Size!

MARCH 3, 2014 – LOS ANGELES, CA – Acclaimed sexual wellness authority and Wicked Pictures contract star jessica drake, and multiple award-winning BBW performer and size acceptance advocate Kelly Shibari, have wrapped principal photography for jessica drake’s Guide to Wicked Sex: Plus Size. The film will be released by adult entertainment powerhouse Wicked Pictures in the spring / summer of 2014.

“From the inception of my series Guide to Wicked Sex, I’ve wanted it to be a unique educational hybrid, an all inclusive resource to everyone interested in realizing their sexual potential,” says jessica drake. “When I began doing seminars and workshops years ago, I quickly realized women and couples of size were lacking options, and it seemed many plus size movies were still upholding the clichéd stereotypes, often in a derogatory fashion.”

jessica continues, “I have long admired Kelly for her sex positive attitude, her determination, and her desire to educate, and I knew she would be the perfect person to collaborate with for this project. Over the past year, we gradually built the rapport to embark on what I feel is one of the greatest volumes in the entire series. I am very grateful for her input and expertise.”

“I am incredibly thrilled with what we were able to capture on camera,” says Kelly Shibari. “The content we created for jessica drake’s Guide to Wicked Sex: Plus Size is beautiful, with a very cinematic feel. The couples we interviewed were absolutely inspiring, and the performers we cast and the crew all brought their A-game. All the elements combined have helped to create a product not only visually stimulating – it is emotionally empowering. I am extremely happy with this film, and am looking forward to getting it to the public.”

To view images from jessica drake’s Guide to Wicked Sex: Plus Size on the series’ official Facebook fan page, click here.

jessica drake’s Guide to Wicked Sex: Plus Size is the first sex education DVD created for the plus size community. The movie’s cast includes beautiful BBW performers Devlyn Red, Angel DeLuca, and Scarlet LaVey, as well as non-performer couples Scarlette Cyn and JC Lewis, and Sherri Shaulis and Michael Colbert; it showcases women of a diverse range of BBW sizes, ranging from size 14 – 24. Kelly Shibari hosts the narration for the bulk of the project, and is also featured in one of the full-length sex scenes provided at the end of the film.

Scarlette Cyn remarked, “This film project provided my partner and me the ability to explore each other’s bodies through communication exercises and real life practical scenarios. It was a fantastic opportunity to show the importance of appreciating, relishing, and accepting one’s appearance through the prism of sexuality, and we are extremely honored to have been able to participate in such a groundbreaking project for our community.”

Of the filming environment, Angel DeLuca commented, “It was one of the most positive sets I have ever been on! I loved working with everyone there, and never felt better about myself, my size, and my sexuality.” Scarlet LaVey echoed her sentiment, saying, “I had such an amazing time on set. The energy was refreshing, and the cast and crew truly felt like family; I’m very honored to be part of a project with such a positive message.”

“As with all volumes, we truly owe everything to our amazing cast,” adds jessica. “The energy and passion they brought forth is immeasurable. The demonstrations and the hardcore scenes are intensely passionate; beyond that, their willingness to be candid and open to discussing body image, confidence, communication, and more is what makes this project a success. I sincerely thank our professional performers, our real life couples, and Kelly, for being so wonderful, and as always, Wicked, for their continuing support.”

jessica drake’s Guide to Wicked Sex: Plus Size takes viewers through a variety of topics, from relationship communication, discussion of trigger words and acceptable terminology between partners, size-friendly sex positions, and body confidence exercises. The addition of three full-length sex scenes, available with or without commentary, is also offered at the end of the film. Interviews with plus-size adult performers, as well as non-performers, are an integral part of the project. The provide a non-xxx look into the issues confronted by plus size women, men, and couples, and offer solutions to increase confidence and combat negative stereotypes.

On the immense scope of the project, Kelly commented, “There was so much to cover in this film; our aim was to create a product for couples who may not be in size-positive or size-supportive communities, and we feel we have succeeded. I truly hope this film will help men, women, and couples of size become more confident in their sexuality, explore their amazing bodies, and communicate better as to their relationship and sexual desires. I’m so honored to have jessica and Wicked on board to help realize a project I have been conceptualizing for over four years; it’s truly humbling.”

As a BBW model/performer, Kelly is passionate about introducing body positive messages into the media spotlight, and promotes her ongoing mantra of “Confidence is Sexy” through a variety of mediums. A proponent of “intelligent hedonism,” Kelly speaks on college campuses and more on how to intelligently navigate female sexuality, negative media messages about size, and bullying, all while developing self-confidence, class, and inner strength.

jessica drake is a fervent educator on sexual health and wellness. She is a highly sought-after sexual wellness speaker who lectures at universities, teaches seminars, and runs workshops globally. Through her series of workshops and seminars, and her line of instructional DVDs, jessica drake’s Guide to Wicked Sex, drake teaches people to explore their sexuality in a fun, safe, and responsible way. She teaches how to set boundaries, emphasize consent, and still have wonderful sex, while communicating effectively with partners.

jessica drake’s Guide to Wicked Sex is established as one of the most awarded and trusted sex education resources on the market. Its debut production jessica drake’s Guide to Wicked Sex: Fellatio received the 2012 AVN award for Best Educational Release and jessica drake’s Guide Wicked Sex: Anal received the 2012 XBIZ award for Specialty Release of the Year. jessica drake’s Guide to Wicked Sex: Anal Play for Men was recently named Best Educational Release at the 2014 AVN Awards.

About jessica drake’s Guide to Wicked Sex:
Three-time AVN Best Actress winner and sexual wellness authority jessica drake brings erotic topics to life through intimate demonstrations performed by some of today’s hottest adult stars in her “Guide to Wicked Sex” series. The stimulating sequences are sensual, provocative and enlivened by an informative optional audio commentary. In each volume of “jessica drake’s Guide to Wicked Sex,” writer, producer, director, and host jessica drake addresses a different aspect of human sexuality, ranging from Fellatio and Anal to Basic Positions and Female Masturbation. jessica explores each topic with the same distinct blend of knowledge, experience, and good humor, which led Dee Dennis, the founder of sexuality conference CatalystCon, to praise her as “an amazing sex educator and speaker, who represents a new direction and is breaking new ground” in the sexual self-help genre. The series’ volume on Fellatio earned AVN’s 2012 Best Educational Release trophy, “Anal” was named XBIZ’s 2012 Specialty Release of the Year, “Anal Sex for Men” received AVN’s 2014 Best Educational Release award. For more information, visit www.GuideToWickedSex.com, www.Facebook.com/GuideToWickedSex, or www.Twitter.com/Guide2WickedSex.

About Kelly Shibari:
From her background in design and construction in mainstream film and television production, to performing in front of the camera as the sexually charged figurehead for chubby Asian girls everywhere, Kelly Shibari is a stereotype-breaking tour-de-force. Holding the distinct honor of being the only plus-sized performer ever molded for a Fleshlight, Kelly is also the face of harness company SpareParts Hardwear®’s plus size line, and made sexy pop culture media site Fleshbot’s Top Ten Crush Object List for 2013. Her self-produced, self-marketed DVD, “Kelly Shibari is Overloaded,” was nominated for both XBIZ and AVN, not just for the DVD itself but also for its marketing campaign. Kelly was named 2013 BBW Performer of the Year at EXXXOTICA’s fan-based awards, “The Fannys,” and also named Best BBW Performer at the 2013 NightMoves Awards. For more information, visit www.KellyShibariXXX.com, www.Twitter.com/KellyShibari, and www.Facebook.com/KellyShibari.

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jessica drake, Kelly Shibari Announce Guide to Wicked Sex: Plus Size Collaboration

Modern Sex Educator Teams with Size Acceptance Advocate to Present Groundbreaking Educational DVD!

JANUARY 8, 2014 – LOS ANGELES, CA – Acclaimed sexual wellness authority and Wicked Pictures contract star jessica drake will collaborate with multiple award-winning BBW Performer of the Year and size acceptance advocate Kelly Shibari on the first-ever educational DVD on plus size sexuality. The DVD, jessica drake’s Guide to Wicked Sex: Plus Size, will be released by Wicked Pictures.

jessica drake’s Guide to Wicked Sex: Plus Size is the first sex education video created for the plus size community. Casting for the groundbreaking project is currently underway; production begins shortly after the January adult awards show season.

“I’m so thrilled to have jessica and Wicked Pictures support me in the creation of this DVD,” says Kelly. “This is a project jessica and I have been discussing for well over a year. She has been a great supporter and a true inspiration in the field of positive sexuality and agreed there was a lack, and a very obvious need, for a sex education video for people of size. I hope the DVD will help men, women, and couples of size become more confident in their sexuality, explore their amazing bodies, and communicate better as to their sexual desires.”

As a BBW model/performer, Kelly is passionate about introducing body positive messages into the media spotlight, and promotes her ongoing mantra of “Confidence is Sexy” through a variety of mediums. Her article on plus size sexuality and pornography on Jane Pratt’s SAY MEDIA site, xojane, was one of the site’s most popular articles. Kelly has written for several adult industry sites, and was a featured guest editor for ex-Gawker Media site Fleshbot’s Kelly Shibari Week, and contributes to sexuality website Gasm.org. A proponent of “intelligent hedonism,” Kelly speaks on college campuses and more on how to intelligently navigate female sexuality, negative media messages about size, and bullying, all while developing self-confidence, class, and inner strength.

Kelly adds, “When I started my research into plus size sexuality, I found there were plenty of blogs and a few books on the subject, but no educational videos, either from lack of production support or hesitation about covering the subject matter. I’m so pleased to have jessica and Wicked take this step with me. Wicked is a phenomenal company when it comes to sex education outreach everywhere, and having their support in creating this DVD is extremely humbling.”

“When I first began Guide to Wicked Sex, I wanted it to be an all-inclusive educational resource for every adult looking to enrich their sex lives,” says jessica drake. “The plus size community deserves better sex education, support, and inspiration, and Kelly Shibari is the perfect person to co-direct and narrate Guide to Wicked Sex: Plus Size to ensure the project’s genuine authenticity.”

jessica continues, “From the day I met Kelly, I hoped to collaborate with her on this project, and over time I’ve gotten to know her both as a friend and fellow educator. Her knowledge and creativity, coupled with a desire to share both in order to better the sex lives of an underrepresented and equally important demographic, will take this instructional to a whole new level. As always, I am extremely grateful to Wicked Pictures for their constant support and for allowing me to continue to expand the Guide to Wicked Sex brand, helping women and couples of all kinds enhance their sexuality.”

A fervent educator on sexual health and wellness, drake is a highly sought-after sexual wellness speaker who lectures at universities, teaches seminars, and runs workshops globally. Through her series of workshops and seminars, and her line of instructional DVDs, jessica drake’s Guide to Wicked Sex, drake teaches people to explore their sexuality in a fun, safe, and responsible way. She teaches how to set boundaries, emphasize consent, and still have wonderful sex, while communicating effectively with partners.

For more information on jessica drake’s Guide to Wicked Sex, visit
www.GuideToWickedSex.com or www.Twitter.com/jdGTWS.

About jessica drake’s Guide to Wicked Sex:
Three-time AVN Best Actress winner and sexual wellness authority jessica drake brings erotic topics to life through intimate demonstrations performed by some of today’s hottest adult stars in her “Guide to Wicked Sex” series. The stimulating sequences are sensual, provocative and enlivened by an informative optional audio commentary. In each volume of “jessica drake’s Guide to Wicked Sex,” writer, producer, director, and host jessica drake addresses a different aspect of human sexuality, ranging from Fellatio and Anal to Basic Positions and Female Masturbation. jessica explores each topic with the same distinct blend of knowledge, experience, and good humor which led Dee Dennis, the founder of sexuality conference CatalystCon, to praise her as “an amazing sex educator and speaker, who represents a new direction and is breaking new ground” in the sexual self-help genre. The series’ volume on Fellatio earned AVN’s 2012 Best Educational Release award. For more information, visit www.GuideToWickedSex.com or www.Twitter.com/Guide2WickedSex.

About jessica drake:
Karma can mean many things to many people, but for jessica drake, it has always meant an abundance of success and concern for others. Her beauty frames a prodigious talent that has helped her earn AVN’s coveted Best Actress award three times. An exclusive Wicked Pictures contract performer, writer, and director, as well as a global humanitarian and emerging sexual wellness authority, jessica’s brilliant career continues to move forward with ambitious adult productions like Brad Armstrong’s “Underworld” and instructional releases for “jessica drake’s Guide to Wicked Sex.” In the popular series, jessica brings erotic topics to life through intimate demonstrations performed by some of today’s hottest adult stars. Each volume addresses different aspects of human sexuality explored with a distinct blend of knowledge, experience, and good humor, which is refreshing for the sexual self-help genre. The series’ volume on ‘Fellatio’ earned AVN’s 2012 Best Educational Release award, while ‘Anal’ was named XBIZ’s 2012 Specialty Release of the Year. The same demand for her modern sex education DVDs takes jessica around the world, presenting seminars and workshops at expos, retail outlets, and colleges, like the University of California – Santa Barbara and Chapman University, where she speaks to curious adults desiring to learn more about sex, romance, and communication. For more information, visit www.Twitter.com/thejessicadrake and www.GuideToWickedSex.com.

About Kelly Shibari:
From her background in design and construction in mainstream film and television production, to performing in front of the camera as the sexually charged figurehead for chubby Asian girls everywhere, Kelly Shibari is a stereotype-breaking tour-de-force. Holding the distinct honor of being the only plus-sized performer ever molded for a Fleshlight, Kelly is also the face of harness company SpareParts Hardwear®’s plus size line, and made sexy pop culture media site Fleshbot’s Top Ten Crush Object List for 2013. Her self-produced, self-marketed DVD, “Kelly Shibari is Overloaded,” was nominated for both XBIZ and AVN, not just for the DVD itself but also for its marketing campaign. Kelly was named 2013 BBW Performer of the Year at EXXXOTICA’s fan-based awards, “The Fannys,” and also named Best BBW Performer at the 2013 NightMoves Awards. For more information, visit www.KellyShibariXXX.com, www.Twitter.com/KellyShibari, and www.Facebook.com/KellyShibari.

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The Art of Seduction: Seducing Women

Throughout history the term seduction carried with it a negative connotation.  Seducing a person meant leading them astray of their virtuous path, often in a sexual manner.  Eve seduced Adam with a metaphoric apple.  Casanova seduced so many ladies, his name has now become synonymous with “womanizer,” not a flattering term.  In the mid 1900s, you could even be charged with the crime of seduction, like Frank Sinatra was.

 

More recently, seduction has also taken on a positive definition.  Seduction can mean the act of flirting with or charming another person regardless of whether sex is the ultimate goal… though it often still is.

 

There is an art to seduction.  Women and men respond to different forms of seduction, and of course every person responds differently within their generalized group.  For the sake of this blog, it is necessary to generalize though.  We’ll touch on seducing men another time (and no, it isn’t as simple as showing our breasts… usually).  Right now, our focus is going to be how to seduce a woman, whether you are a man or a woman.

 

Here are some of my tips for seducing a woman:

 

Actions Speak Louder than Words.  It’s fine to relay to her how you want to run your hand through her hair, take her out to a nice restaurant, or kiss her like she’s never been kissed before, but ultimately the time will come for you to stop talking and to actually make good on your rhetoric: flowers, door holding, and a passionate kiss that leaves her weak in the knees.

Always Be Confident, Even When You’re Nervous.  I still get nervous when I see a woman I’m attracted to – it’s only natural.  Being a little nervous is even cute to many women, as long as you are showing confidence, like you deserve to be standing there with them.  It’s okay to have a sweaty palm as long as you displayed the confidence to reach out and take her hand.

Pay Attention to Detail.  Noticing her new outfit or haircut can go a long way towards putting you on a woman’s radar.  The same attention to detail is true with her body language.  If you see her shiver, offer her a coat.  These gestures show her she is a priority.

Compliment Her.  Complimenting someone, especially a woman you are attracted to, is an art unto itself.  Compliments must be well thought out.  Too many compliments and you risk being construed as insincere.  Too general of compliments, and you come off as contrived.  Think of compliments as a way to ease her insecurities.  They should also be tailored to the specific woman.  Using sensory words like “feel,” “smell,” and “taste” help make the compliments even more personal: “I love how soft your hair feels and how it smells like strawberries.”

Her Pleasure Comes First.  Seduction doesn’t stop once you get her in the bedroom, otherwise you may not find yourself invited a second time.  By always putting her first, whether it’s giving her the last bite of dessert or the first orgasm, you are showing her she is the most important thing to you, similar to the tip to pay attention to detail.

 

Perhaps the single best tip I can give you about seduction, especially seducing a woman, is not to treat it like a game.  There’s no bigger turn off than the feeling of being played or like you’re a statistic – besides, in games there are only one winner.  If all goes well while trying to seduce a woman who has caught your eye, you will both be winners.

xo,
jd