Ask jessica – Readers Request jessica’s Advice

I feel like my boyfriend and I always have the “same sex”. I don’t want to get bored with him. What can I do to change up our sex life?

–Amanda; Boston, MA


Hi Amanda, it’s great you want to amp up your sex life! There are plenty of ways, big and small, to change things up.

One way to heat up the bedroom is to extend the foreplay well beyond the four walls. Text naughty love notes during the day while you both are at work, or consider slipping a pair of your panties into a pocket of his clothes or briefcase for him to find. It will ensure you’re on his mind throughout the day – anticipation building until he can get home and rip your clothes off.

Another way to turn up the heat is to try having sex somewhere new and risqué, like the kitchen counter or head out to dinner, and make a quick exit to the restaurant bathroom. Remember sex doesn’t have to be in the bedroom!

Continue to try new things and talk about your fantasies with each other. Whether it’s striptease, role-playing, or S&M, decide what you’re both comfortable with and take it from there.

Switching up your positions can also make a huge difference and provide a bit of new excitement between the two of you. For some easy tips, check out jessica drake’s Guide to Wicked Sex:Basic Positions.




My husband wants to watch porn while we are having sex. I don’t know if I feel comfortable with him watching another girl, while he’s making love to me. What should I do?

–Michelle; Denver, CO


Michelle, first of all, when it comes to sex, if there is anything you are uncomfortable doing, DON’T! A man who loves you won’t force you into anything you’re not ready for. However, if you are open to meeting him halfway, try picking out a soft-core adult film you feel comfortable watching together. Make sure to discuss your comfort zone and what your do not cross line is.

Since you feel uncomfortable with your hubby watching porn while you are in the act of having sex, consider turning the film off after foreplay, once things have heated up. Setting boundaries you are both comfortable with is the only way to go.



Trailer for “jessica drake’s Guide to Wicked Sex: Basic Positions”

Bored in bed? Looking to spice things up for both you AND your partner? Then you’ve come to the right place! I’m jessica drake, and in this Guide to Wicked Sex, we’ll explore everything you need to know to turn some basic positions into something even more satisfying. Learn how to change things up and enrich your sex life…get closer and more intimate with your partner… and experience deeper orgasms. Give me 90 minutes of your time, and I’ll teach you some techniques that will make your toes curl and rock your lover’s world!

Wicked Pictures Proudly Releases Its Third Breakthrough Educational DVD: ‘jessica drake’s Guide to Wicked Sex: Basic Positions’.

FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE | Wicked Pictures Proudly Releases Its Third Breakthrough Educational DVD, ‘jessica drake’s Guide to Wicked Sex: Basic Positions’.

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LOS ANGELES, CA – (SEPTEMBER 30, 2011) – XBIZ Feature Studio of the Year Wicked Pictures is pleased to introduce jessica drake’s Guide to Wicked Sex: Basic Positions. Arriving in stores today, this illuminating DVD finds three-time AVN Best Actress winner and emerging sexual wellness authority jessica drake unveiling techniques couples can use to expand their sexual repertoire and enjoy heightened levels of pleasure and intimacy.

With her trademark warmth and delicious humor, jessica treats viewers to a collection of lovemaking positions that comes complete with tips on how to augment each act for greater mutual satisfaction. Each position is explored in interviews with such popular adult performers as 2011 AVN Best Actress winner India Summer, Aubrey Addams, Victoria Lawson, Rhianna Rimes, Rocco Reed, Justin Magnum, TJ Cummings and Tyler Knight. These candid conversations deliver everything from pointers on health and hygiene to tips on improving communication in bed.

For jessica, performer chemistry was crucial to creating these revealing sequences. “I always ask people who they want to work with long before shooting. It gives everything a greater level of realism and intimacy, and it allows the focus to be on communication and having the best sexual experience possible.”

Of her goals for this release, jessica reveals, “I wanted to show people how they can take the basic positions and, with some minor changes, turn them into something even more exciting and satisfying. These tips will help you create more variety in your sex life, become more intimate with your partner, and experience deeper orgasms.”

Uniting a lifetime of study with a decade’s worth of experiential research, the jessica drake’s Guide to Wicked Sex series is already receiving excellent reviews. The critics at XBIZ are raving about the franchise, praising jessica’s unique ability to “connect with people through her friendly and personal approach” and dubbing the series “the steamiest instructional line on the market!” Gawker Media’s Fleshbot has been just as effusive in its appreciation of jessica, crediting her with bringing a “sexy, articulate and professional” new voice to the sexual self-help genre.

In addition to creating this exclusive line of educational DVDs, jessica is helping men and women become more sexually aware with Sex for the Wicked Woman, a series of powerful and engaging self-help seminars illuminated by her vast expertise and passion for research.

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